Child Safe
Re: Child Safe
The response from the embassy will feel like a warm bath, I am sure. Full of empathy, understanding and most important, cooperation.TWY wrote: ↑Wed Sep 26, 2018 10:58 pm OP,
I would suggest calling the US embassy and asking what documents are required to obtain a US passport for your child without the mother's signature (which is a requirement for the application). Simply tell them the short story - child's mother is having problems with drugs. Prior to the passport you need to obtain the report of birth abroad. Given the circumstances they likely will request a DNA test to establish paternity (which you have to pay for).
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Re: Child Safe
Domestic issue 'resolved'. Very happy with professionalism of the Siem Reap police, child safe and authorities involved.
Yup, so here it is, then closing this one out...
Got her in, she lied through her teeth. Got her to police station, they took her urine and then they (police) wanted to speak with me first. They said if she was positive then they would immediately hand baby to me and take her directly to prison or rehab. My choice. They went on to explain, that if she tested negative then they would have a major problem with me for ruining her reputation and I would be 'in big trouble with them'. Not sure what that meant exactly. Their rationale was, if she was in prison and I decided to not take care of the baby, they would have to deal with it... him...
I explained my side... Just wanted to ensure baby's safety, she hasn't been under my observation for some time, some drugs leave your system in a matter of days, she has shown symptoms of drug user blah blah blah...
Didn't care.
We went back to discuss situation with counselors... I said OK no test but I want baby under my control again.
Great! They all agreed. We were ordered to join hands over the table and REPEAT AFTER ME: 'I L0VE YOU AND PROMISE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU' we each had to repeat...
We then signed a contract saying what the other was not allowed to do. She was nice enough to allow me to drink beer...but only a little. I also have to pay for her and baby for life. After signing, I was told that we were officially let off with a warning and told to take her home. To my house.
This was complete with photo shoot. Movies, photos..... Lots of them. I'm guessing we are plastered all over facebook somewhere with the caption SAVED RELATIONSHIP.
At least baby is under my control again and has birth cert. She seems genuinely happy again. I'm the guy grimacing in the pictures....
Yup, so here it is, then closing this one out...
Got her in, she lied through her teeth. Got her to police station, they took her urine and then they (police) wanted to speak with me first. They said if she was positive then they would immediately hand baby to me and take her directly to prison or rehab. My choice. They went on to explain, that if she tested negative then they would have a major problem with me for ruining her reputation and I would be 'in big trouble with them'. Not sure what that meant exactly. Their rationale was, if she was in prison and I decided to not take care of the baby, they would have to deal with it... him...
I explained my side... Just wanted to ensure baby's safety, she hasn't been under my observation for some time, some drugs leave your system in a matter of days, she has shown symptoms of drug user blah blah blah...
Didn't care.
We went back to discuss situation with counselors... I said OK no test but I want baby under my control again.
Great! They all agreed. We were ordered to join hands over the table and REPEAT AFTER ME: 'I L0VE YOU AND PROMISE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU' we each had to repeat...
We then signed a contract saying what the other was not allowed to do. She was nice enough to allow me to drink beer...but only a little. I also have to pay for her and baby for life. After signing, I was told that we were officially let off with a warning and told to take her home. To my house.
This was complete with photo shoot. Movies, photos..... Lots of them. I'm guessing we are plastered all over facebook somewhere with the caption SAVED RELATIONSHIP.
At least baby is under my control again and has birth cert. She seems genuinely happy again. I'm the guy grimacing in the pictures....
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Re: Child Safe
So if I understand correctly you are living with your druggie wife and child on a contractual basis and you find that satisfactory?
As my old Cajun bait seller used to say, "I opes you luck.
Re: Child Safe
Sounds like you have just agreed to continue your relationship with the druggy gf and she's moved back in with you...WTF?
Re: Child Safe
You agreed, in writing, that you and your child will live with, and you will financially support, a junkie violent prostitute that you've never been married to, for the rest of your life?
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You signed that you’re going to pay for her and the baby for life? The girl is probably younger than you and the baby is definitely younger than you. Both may outlive you. So how are you planning on providing support to them after you pass away?
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How much do you have to pay for her for life?CAMBOGUY123 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 29, 2018 11:02 am Domestic issue 'resolved'. Very happy with professionalism of the Siem Reap police, child safe and authorities involved.
Yup, so here it is, then closing this one out...
Got her in, she lied through her teeth. Got her to police station, they took her urine and then they (police) wanted to speak with me first. They said if she was positive then they would immediately hand baby to me and take her directly to prison or rehab. My choice. They went on to explain, that if she tested negative then they would have a major problem with me for ruining her reputation and I would be 'in big trouble with them'. Not sure what that meant exactly. Their rationale was, if she was in prison and I decided to not take care of the baby, they would have to deal with it... him...
I explained my side... Just wanted to ensure baby's safety, she hasn't been under my observation for some time, some drugs leave your system in a matter of days, she has shown symptoms of drug user blah blah blah...
Didn't care.
We went back to discuss situation with counselors... I said OK no test but I want baby under my control again.
Great! They all agreed. We were ordered to join hands over the table and REPEAT AFTER ME: 'I L0VE YOU AND PROMISE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU' we each had to repeat...
We then signed a contract saying what the other was not allowed to do. She was nice enough to allow me to drink beer...but only a little. I also have to pay for her and baby for life. After signing, I was told that we were officially let off with a warning and told to take her home. To my house.
This was complete with photo shoot. Movies, photos..... Lots of them. I'm guessing we are plastered all over facebook somewhere with the caption SAVED RELATIONSHIP.
At least baby is under my control again and has birth cert. She seems genuinely happy again. I'm the guy grimacing in the pictures....
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There is not enough facepalm gifs on the internet to deal with this one.....
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Re: Child Safe
I have serious doubts that the relationship will last that long. I'm curious how much prewarning the girl may have had about the drug test.newkidontheblock wrote: ↑Sat Sep 29, 2018 12:04 pm You signed that you’re going to pay for her and the baby for life? The girl is probably younger than you and the baby is definitely younger than you. Both may outlive you. So how are you planning on providing support to them after you pass away?
As my old Cajun bait seller used to say, "I opes you luck.
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Re: Child Safe
doesn't mean shit WITHOUT court order
I had the exact same thing,, paper filled out in front of my lawyer, (although had a one time payment... not for life an no promise to love each other) ......stupid move on ur part
with that paper, filled for sole custody of my daughter thru family court and it was granted.
asap; go to ur embassy,(if ur American get the Consular Report of Birth Abroad) go with her, fill it out, submit it, get ur son's passport at the same time.
PS: as to how long drugs can be detected.
Urine/blood
Amphetamines 2-5 days up to 90days
Barbiturates 2-3weeks 90 days
Cannabis 2 days -11weeks 90 days
Cocaine 2-30 days 90 days
Valium 7-10 days 90days
Ecstasy 2-5 days 90 days
Fentanyl 8-24 hours 90 days
Heroin 2-4 days 90days
Ludes 1 week 90 days
Oxycodone 3-4days 90days
I had the exact same thing,, paper filled out in front of my lawyer, (although had a one time payment... not for life an no promise to love each other) ......stupid move on ur part
with that paper, filled for sole custody of my daughter thru family court and it was granted.
asap; go to ur embassy,(if ur American get the Consular Report of Birth Abroad) go with her, fill it out, submit it, get ur son's passport at the same time.
Yea,this relationship will last.....His mother has turned junkie, prostitute
PS: as to how long drugs can be detected.
Urine/blood
Amphetamines 2-5 days up to 90days
Barbiturates 2-3weeks 90 days
Cannabis 2 days -11weeks 90 days
Cocaine 2-30 days 90 days
Valium 7-10 days 90days
Ecstasy 2-5 days 90 days
Fentanyl 8-24 hours 90 days
Heroin 2-4 days 90days
Ludes 1 week 90 days
Oxycodone 3-4days 90days
In a nation run by swine, all pigs are upward-mobile and the rest of us are fucked until we can put our acts together: not necessarily to win, but mainly to keep from losing completely. HST
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