In the last month I have bumped into 2 young lads who say they recently have taken girls home from dirtbars who claim to be Virgins. I have pulled them on it and told them they are gullible but they say this is normal.

I have also bumped into a few people who say some bar girls are their best mates. I get on well with the girls and I always have a laugh and see it for what it is but surely people don't really think bar girls are their friends. I have nothing against them and enjoy the scene and company but come on.....

many ppl find bargirls not purely for sex, to each his own. just dont come knocking at my door when the girl ran off with your life savings.

But she's different I swear.

stereotypes aside...
i know quite a few original girls who work in bars, its not as uncommon as you may think, but the fact these guys say they took these "virgins" home is an unlikely story
im also only 28 and i am good friends with a lot of girls who work in the bars but maybe thats because im not some creepy old man...

kiwiincambodia wrote:But she's different I swear.

she only work the bar 2 month and only works cashier

I have met a few who have told me they are virgins and don't go with customers. It is a bit of a wierd place to work if that is the case and I am sure they have a lookout or hope for a future boyfriend. You can't trust anything I say anyway, I have been here years and still see the same girls knocking around who tell me they have worked here 3 months so I feel puddled.

Why did you mention about virginity? Is it a kind of virginity trade?

Jamie_Lambo wrote:stereotypes aside...
i know quite a few original girls who work in bars, its not as uncommon as you may think, but the fact these guys say they took these "virgins" home is an unlikely story
im also only 28 and i am good friends with a lot of girls who work in the bars but maybe thats because im not some creepy old man...

so far i have only met 1 so called "original" bar girl, she ask for 5000$ also she said her father put her there to look for barang husband

bolueeleh wrote:

Jamie_Lambo wrote:stereotypes aside...
i know quite a few original girls who work in bars, its not as uncommon as you may think, but the fact these guys say they took these "virgins" home is an unlikely story
im also only 28 and i am good friends with a lot of girls who work in the bars but maybe thats because im not some creepy old man...

so far i have only met 1 so called "original" bar girl, she ask for 5000$ also she said her father put her there to look for barang husband

i know at least 10

I dont have any experience with bar girls, but more with "gray girls" . With them in Cambodia you can have a great time and for "free" or better just with some dinner and.... without any cash transaction involved. Or maybe it is just my experience.

It is wondering for me to hear that Jamie would like to settle down wit a good girl (virgin). I think in a relationship sex plays an important role, maybe not the most, and I would never take a virgin in Cambodia because without a commitmernt (the man is an asshole) and with serious intentions would be to risky to have a partner with whom the sex could be not so great. The attitude towards sex of the cambodian girls is often very different form the western girls and maybe it is better to test it before the marriage. E.g. my 2 cent expreience ist that masturbation is unusual for khmer girls ( I dont know about khmer boys) whereas western girls (wifes) do it and use toys too (forbidden in Cambodia)