THE SAD TALE OF THE MAN WHO COULDN’T MAKE A FRIEND IN CAMBODIA FOR LOVE NOR MONEY

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It's a wind up reminiscent of SeaWolf's.
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Ah the thread that just keeps on giving ----- nothing

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Confused wrote: Wed Feb 05, 2020 7:07 am "You are not to go with that guy do you understand ?"

"you clearly didn't get the message, we are not fucking about. you stay away from him unless you want trouble, let me make that 100% clear to you".
Your Khmer language skills must be very advanced.

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Username Taken wrote: Wed Feb 05, 2020 5:18 pm
Confused wrote: Wed Feb 05, 2020 7:07 am "You are not to go with that guy do you understand ?"

"you clearly didn't get the message, we are not fucking about. you stay away from him unless you want trouble, let me make that 100% clear to you".
Your Khmer language skills must be very advanced.

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When you have Delusional Personality Disorder your language skills amongst other things are unbelievable! :D
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Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 9:53 pm I wanted one girl. Is Phnom Penh's entertainment industry SO hard pushed for cash that it couldn't lose one girl ??? That it had to go to all this effort to stop me finding and taking one girl away from them ???????????
are you in phnom penh now?
meet me in a couple of days (im in battambong atm for 2 nights)
ill take you out on the hunt, you wont find a better wingman, i will either get you laid or find out why you cant, then probably still get you laid, lets go! :beer3:
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Jamie_Lambo wrote: Wed Feb 05, 2020 11:38 pm
Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 9:53 pm I wanted one girl. Is Phnom Penh's entertainment industry SO hard pushed for cash that it couldn't lose one girl ??? That it had to go to all this effort to stop me finding and taking one girl away from them ???????????
are you in phnom penh now?
meet me in a couple of days (im in battambong atm for 2 nights)
ill take you out on the hunt, you wont find a better wingman, i will either get you laid or find out why you cant, then probably still get you laid, lets go! :beer3:
Bet you don't get taken up on this offer. Ever. 10 pages, and still going. The guy is a genius. I'm looking forward to coming home from work tomorrow for episode 3 in my sad little life. :lol:

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Maybe Jamie can identify the "mysterious person(s)" who Confused believes has been talking to/threatening/warning the girls and causing them to run in fear from him.
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Please vlog it


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Jamie_Lambo wrote: Wed Feb 05, 2020 11:38 pm
Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 9:53 pm I wanted one girl. Is Phnom Penh's entertainment industry SO hard pushed for cash that it couldn't lose one girl ??? That it had to go to all this effort to stop me finding and taking one girl away from them ???????????
are you in phnom penh now?
meet me in a couple of days (im in battambong atm for 2 nights)
ill take you out on the hunt, you wont find a better wingman, i will either get you laid or find out why you cant, then probably still get you laid, lets go! :beer3:
Haha ! :) I left about a week ago.

I've got no doubt at all about your prowess as a wingman, and if I ever make it back I'd be delighted to see if the offer's still available and meet up for a couple of beers !
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clutchcargo wrote: Wed Feb 05, 2020 2:06 pm
Confused wrote: Wed Feb 05, 2020 7:07 am This was not a "working girl community" protecting each other, it was an individual or group of individuals doing whatever was necessary to make my life a misery, and if that entailed threatening girls who wanted to be with me then sobeit. There was nothing ethical about this. I was put through severe anguish, and several girls were made extremely upset and at times frightened. It was plain and simply malicious, and nothing else.
I think you mentioned in an earlier post, this individual or group of individuals was not the bar owners.. In any event I only know of one barang bar owner that manages several bars (albeit he happens to be Australian) and a khmer owner of 3-4 bars.

So, if you reckon it's not the bar girl community or the owners, then why would an individual or group do this? Which I guess is the question that you've been asking the members here. Without any facts or evidence, we can only speculate as has been done already. Funny that you would come here for an answer to something that we can't answer.

Have you rubbed up a guy the wrong way while you've been here? Have you made some enemies?

How many hostess bars are we talking about here where you got this treatment from the girls? Did it happen on one night or spread over many days?

You obviously got to see this person that you say whispered in the girl's ear so you must have some idea who this guy is and who he represents? And so, he must have been stalking you at these bars and following you?
I wasn't going to reply to this:

a) because my immediate reaction was that there were no guys I can think of who I was aware of being involved, other than possibly that Australian guy

b) this is rapidly feeling more and more like an ex-phase of my life.

Some thoughts have come to mind though, so I might as well answer.

In Siem Reap (this was about 2 years ago now), I never actually saw anyone intervene other than one girl (who actually told me later she would marry me if her relationship with her boyfriend in America ended) being led away from me by another girl. It was only just after that incident that she told me about this boyfriend, and she told me that was why shy couldn't see me, but whether that was true or not I don't know. Other than that, things would just happen, but whilst it was always obvious when it had happened, I never noticed any particular communication.

In Pontoon, it was always girls who gave the message. There was one girl I didn't know who told whatever it is to several girls, but she wasn't the only one. I'd forgotten but there was another girl in there who always seemed absolutely delighted and would piss herself laughing every time it happened. I slept with her once, and didn't think much of it. Tbh, my performance was a bit lame I thought anyway. She seemed very keen on me afterwards though, and I remember now there was a night shortly after I slept with her, where there was one of those weird dancing performances in there, and as it started she took me over to the DJ side to watch from there. A security guard said I couldn't be there, and she told him it's OK I'm with her. Shortly afterwards I hit on another girl (don't think I got anywhere), but she didn't seem best pleased about it. Perhaps everything in Pontoon came from that.

The stuff in the Phnom Penh bars, is mainly more recent. Until my latest trips, the only trouble I can think of relates to a bar on 136 where girls dance on stage. I went in there one time and bought a girl a drink, and as soon as I had done, a guy came running over and told her she had to go and dance on stage. I know this girl knew something (good) about me, and she had been pretty pleased I'd got her a drink (like, not in that oh good another $2 way, like she was genuinely excited and clearly knew me even though I'd not met her before).

Just before I carry on btw, I'll say that I'm aware that I'm coming across as if I'm absolutely full of myself. I suppose I am a bit, but I'm not THAT amazing. My sex is fairly run of the mill so far as I'm concerned, but girls seem to make more of it than I think it merits for some reason. A couple of nights ago there was a Russian couple going at it in the room next to me, and just as an example that guy's sex (whoever he was) was DEFINITELY better than mine, and I'm fairly average looking these days. And I smoke like a chimney.

Anyway....so the guy tells her she has to dance. She's pisssed off and has a bit of an argument with him but loses. I was also fucked off, and said I wasn't going to pay for her drink. A couple of bitchy women come over and start shouting and saying they'll call security. I explained that as soon as I bought the girl a drink she was told to go and dance. The women said they don't care, pay now or we'll call security. The girl was telling me just pay OK (seemingly for my benefit). I think I stuck $10 in the pot and walked out not bothering to wait for my change (I actually remember now wondering whether they ever realised I'd paid but they probably did).

This wasn't the first time though though that a girl I was drinking with was told to go there to dance. It happened another couple of times in bars on the same street. One time I remember the girl was gorgeous (although I can't remember who she was) and she had a big argument with the guy who'd been sent for her. I'm pretty sure she won the argument and went home with me but I'm not 100% on that.

Funnily enough, that night where the girl I'd been with a few times got up and left after sex leaving me on the floor begging her to lie with me for 30 minutes, I've got a feeling that after she disappeared in the toilet for 15 minutes in a bar we went in on 104, she mentioned something about having to dance. But she stayed with me for what must have been a couple of hours after that. Funnily enough btw, I know she knew she had to go after we'd had sex, because when we got to bed she put off having sex for about 20 minutes, just clinging to the bed and staring at the tv and not talking. God that one hurt.

I actually went back to that bar a couple of times a few months later even though I'd sworn I'd never gone back, and I got on very well with an absolutely gorgeous girl in there (their best girl for sure), and I know she was melting. She was talking about coming home with me, and we were close to going when it came to a shuddering halt again. I went back in there the next night but she was busy so I left it. Would have been a waste of time anyway.

Where was I ?

Why am I bothering ??

Other guys....

….

ummm….

there was the weird old Australian guy (who I am sure gave the first message to my girl on 136). He was about 60, wore flip flops and could clearly do whatever he wanted and the girls knew it.

A bar manager, who was actually probably the closest to being any guy in PP I could say I ever 'got on with' (I simply never met any guys in Phnom Penh), I'm absolutely sure sent home at least 2 girls who were heavily flirting with me, and told another one not to go with me when we were getting very lovey dovey. There was possibly another girl but I won't go there.

There was also a waiter in one of the bars who told a girl I was drinking with and had my arms round to go an drink with another customer, but I would guess he was under orders from someone else. The girl was more gutted than I was anyway tbh. I'd been kissing her a few nights before and she seemed quite keen on me.

The only other guy I can think of was...a guy who seemed to be some kind of security on one of the streets. He'd just pop up occassionally and help tidying up, but I don't think he was there to tidy up. Anyway, the first time I saw him I was having a nice time at the bar with a girl who I believe was related to his girlfriend. I'd forgotten but we were quite sweet briefly. There was nothing lude about it, we were just a little bit touchy feely (mainly holding hands tbh) and there was a little fondness there. In fact, that night I was a bit passively stoned (little problem I've got) and it probably did look a bit odd. It was the cammbodia 7s weekend I think and the bar was packed. He reminded her that she had to take some baby food home or something that night, and things quietened down. He asked her who the fuck I was and she said I was a very good friend of hers. We cooled off after that though, and tbh she stopped talking to me the last few weeks and I forgot we were sweet on each other briefly. She was actually the one girl who helped me the night I lost it on that street after my drink was spiked (or possibly after I'd got passively stoned again), and she came and sat with me and calmed me down. Nice girl. We went back to not talking after that night, but I was very grateful the next day for what she did there.

In terms of the PP bars, other than the occasions where the girls were told to go and dance, I never actually saw anything happen. Just like SR, it was just always obvious where it had. Tbh, towards the end nothing even needed to happen, because all the girls knew already and I knew already. Only exception to that was the very last girl in a new bar I'd found, where a girl came over and spoke to her on my last night. We were VERY VERY...that was going somewhere that one, and if the message had come any later I'm not sure what would have happened, because she looked physically sick when it sunk in as it was (and it wiped me out for about 4 days). I suspect tbh that the girl who came over was under instructions, and although I gave her a bit of a tongue lashing (without being rude as such) when I left, it probably wasn't her fault.

Not sure if I've answered the question or not.
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