THE SAD TALE OF THE MAN WHO COULDN’T MAKE A FRIEND IN CAMBODIA FOR LOVE NOR MONEY

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Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 5:38 pm
phuketrichard wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 5:31 pm unless ur not showering or are seriously ugly, i have to say sounds like a BS story to me

Jamie's reasoning fits (cheap charlie syndrome) BUT
1. he says he pays $50++ (which is overboard)
2. do you force urselve in the backdoor?
3. is ur cock crooked?
4. You go somewhere, you know nobody, ( an hence nobody knows you) and cant get a girl to go home with you??
Sorry dont buy it.

PS: i also couldn't get thru more than 1/4 of the story
It's true. I'm a nice guy, and I give girls a very good time in bed. A lot of these girls were bang into me, and that's for 100%. I can't really go into any more details without betraying confidences but there were girls who were falling over themselves. I don't want to sound like a prick and readily admit I'm the most rejected man in Cambodia, but that is the fact of the matter. The girls were simply not allowed by somebody I don't know who to go with me or tell me what was going on. There was at least one bar where the owner was a very cool guy who knew I was cool and so did the mamma who I got on very well with, and still no girl in his bar could go.

It was someone very influential doing this. That's what I believe anyway.



It's probably that bitch called Karma, or maybe God ?
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phuketrichard wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 5:31 pm
PS: i also couldn't get thru more than 1/4 of the story
You managed a1/4 of it!!!! You're a better man than I am Gunga Din :ROFL:
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Ravensnest wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 6:18 pm okay, so you are admitting that this is indeed your personal experiences as we suspected.
Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 5:47 pm

OK. What about what I've said there makes me an asshole ?
honestly? your whole original post. You are an A-hole for falling in love with a bargirl, first of all. Then, a second later, you're in love and tapping another chick. then you throw tantrums in and outside the girl (s) places of work.
A lot of bars are owned by the same person. Their boss saw the shitty things you did and gave a heads up to look out for you in their other bars. They told the girls to leave to save them the heartache and embarrassment of falling in love over one night with a woman. You are immature and narcissistic. You had woman issues your whole life and your problems will follow you where ever you go, sir.

Try telling a certified crazy person that they are crazy. Think they will believe you?
1. she fell in love with me first.
2. thank you for the information
3. I don't fall in love in one night (although tbf I might fall in love a bit in less than 1 night lol)
4. I might be immature. I might be narcissitic. I might have had woman issues my whole life.
5. I have NOT done shitty things that merit stopping all the girls who wanted to go with me going with me.

Are you guessing or are you telling me ? If you're telling me do you know what these shitty things are ?
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Duncan wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 6:33 pm
Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 5:38 pm
phuketrichard wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 5:31 pm unless ur not showering or are seriously ugly, i have to say sounds like a BS story to me

Jamie's reasoning fits (cheap charlie syndrome) BUT
1. he says he pays $50++ (which is overboard)
2. do you force urselve in the backdoor?
3. is ur cock crooked?
4. You go somewhere, you know nobody, ( an hence nobody knows you) and cant get a girl to go home with you??
Sorry dont buy it.

PS: i also couldn't get thru more than 1/4 of the story
It's true. I'm a nice guy, and I give girls a very good time in bed. A lot of these girls were bang into me, and that's for 100%. I can't really go into any more details without betraying confidences but there were girls who were falling over themselves. I don't want to sound like a prick and readily admit I'm the most rejected man in Cambodia, but that is the fact of the matter. The girls were simply not allowed by somebody I don't know who to go with me or tell me what was going on. There was at least one bar where the owner was a very cool guy who knew I was cool and so did the mamma who I got on very well with, and still no girl in his bar could go.

It was someone very influential doing this. That's what I believe anyway.



It's probably that bitch called Karma, or maybe God ?
Karma for what sorry Duncan ?
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Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 5:09 pm
Jamie_Lambo wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 4:31 pm i kinda got the impression during the story that the "friend" was a person who would not pay/underpay, and that is why he got the bad reputation in and around town, ive seen it before, girls talk
the prices the girls expect now are a lot higher than what they were a few years ago
It's not that Jamie. Maybe that was a rumour in Pontoon, but even where there's a rumour you don't get girls coming up to girls you are with and whispering in their ear (every time). And even if that was the case, they'd at least talk to you about it, not grab their bag and run out of the club which is scarcely an exaggeration. There are other things that don't fit with that in all the instances in Pontoon anyway. But Pontoon aside, that wasn't the issue in the bars (where of course price could be discussed anyway), or with girls who I already knew who simply stopped talking to me. Believe it or not believe it, many of these girls were VERY keen on me, and I can tell the difference.

I did have a few girls at various times who would go with me for no money, or a bit of money or a bit of money now and again, but they didn't all suddenly decide this is no good I'm never going to talk to him again, and they certainly didn't go round all the bars saying this guy's no good he doesn't pay. All the ones who didn't charge me as such knew what it was and there was never an issue.

In any event in most cases, if I was taking a girl from Pontoon or a bar, the first time at least I would give $50-$100 to a girl for the night, which I don't think is underpaying from what I understand. I never went into long negotiations with a girl, and there was never one argument over payment where it applied.

But I couldn't even take a girl at the going rate or above by the end. I couldn't even buy a drink for a girl in most bars. I offered 2 girls $150, including one who I previously gave $80 (which even for a very pretty girl I know is a lot), and they both just got up and walked off. There was a girl who told me $1,000, and you know what I'm not even sure she could have gone even if I agreed. Girls would just disappear. I saw girls in tears and on the edge of tears. I saw girls not knowing what the fuck was going on. I saw girls looking shocked at what they'd seen when I'd lost a girl.

It's so hard to explain now, but there was no bar where I could take a girl from even if I took cash out of my wallet there and then. Right at the end I met one who was going to go, and I'd already spoken to her about a gift and she acted innocent as if she's not that sort of girl. I'd asked her if she'd be my goodbye Cambodia present, and I know she was going to go on my last night and she was an absolute crackajack. But the same thing happened. Just as it was getting past the point of no return someone came over and spoke to her, and she looked like she was going to be sick and she dropped me like a stone. When I was trying to talk her round she said, "I feel bad enough about this already" and "do you want me to die ?". And what about the one in Siem Reap who ran out of my room in tears ? Siem Reap I was being watched everywhere and no girl could go with me, and that's a fact.

Put it like this, I am sure there were girls who were targeted to be taken off me by whatever means, and I am sure (I am certain tbh) there were girls who were warned and even threatened not to go with me.

I also got at least 5 numbers from the place I regularly went for a massage, and without exception when I contacted them they said they couldn't see me. Maybe that's just a co-incidence I don't know, but the other stuff wasn't a co-inicidence.

Anyway, whatever. I can't really remember why I decided to do this now...
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Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 7:06 pm
Ravensnest wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 6:18 pm okay, so you are admitting that this is indeed your personal experiences as we suspected.
Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 5:47 pm

OK. What about what I've said there makes me an asshole ?
honestly? your whole original post. You are an A-hole for falling in love with a bargirl, first of all. Then, a second later, you're in love and tapping another chick. then you throw tantrums in and outside the girl (s) places of work.
A lot of bars are owned by the same person. Their boss saw the shitty things you did and gave a heads up to look out for you in their other bars. They told the girls to leave to save them the heartache and embarrassment of falling in love over one night with a woman. You are immature and narcissistic. You had woman issues your whole life and your problems will follow you where ever you go, sir.

Try telling a certified crazy person that they are crazy. Think they will believe you?
1. she fell in love with me first.
2. thank you for the information
3. I don't fall in love in one night (although tbf I might fall in love a bit in less than 1 night lol)
4. I might be immature. I might be narcissitic. I might have had woman issues my whole life.
5. I have NOT done shitty things that merit stopping all the girls who wanted to go with me going with me.

Are you guessing or are you telling me ? If you're telling me do you know what these shitty things are ?

EDIT: I actually don't believe that it was a bar owner. Girls were threatened and intimidated, and I struggle to believe that a bar owner would do that to his own girls. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong.
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Jamie_Lambo wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 7:08 pm
Confused wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 5:09 pm
Jamie_Lambo wrote: Tue Feb 04, 2020 4:31 pm i kinda got the impression during the story that the "friend" was a person who would not pay/underpay, and that is why he got the bad reputation in and around town, ive seen it before, girls talk
the prices the girls expect now are a lot higher than what they were a few years ago
It's not that Jamie. Maybe that was a rumour in Pontoon, but even where there's a rumour you don't get girls coming up to girls you are with and whispering in their ear (every time). And even if that was the case, they'd at least talk to you about it, not grab their bag and run out of the club which is scarcely an exaggeration. There are other things that don't fit with that in all the instances in Pontoon anyway. But Pontoon aside, that wasn't the issue in the bars (where of course price could be discussed anyway), or with girls who I already knew who simply stopped talking to me. Believe it or not believe it, many of these girls were VERY keen on me, and I can tell the difference.

I did have a few girls at various times who would go with me for no money, or a bit of money or a bit of money now and again, but they didn't all suddenly decide this is no good I'm never going to talk to him again, and they certainly didn't go round all the bars saying this guy's no good he doesn't pay. All the ones who didn't charge me as such knew what it was and there was never an issue.

In any event in most cases, if I was taking a girl from Pontoon or a bar, the first time at least I would give $50-$100 to a girl for the night, which I don't think is underpaying from what I understand. I never went into long negotiations with a girl, and there was never one argument over payment where it applied.

But I couldn't even take a girl at the going rate or above by the end. I couldn't even buy a drink for a girl in most bars. I offered 2 girls $150, including one who I previously gave $80 (which even for a very pretty girl I know is a lot), and they both just got up and walked off. There was a girl who told me $1,000, and you know what I'm not even sure she could have gone even if I agreed. Girls would just disappear. I saw girls in tears and on the edge of tears. I saw girls not knowing what the fuck was going on. I saw girls looking shocked at what they'd seen when I'd lost a girl.

It's so hard to explain now, but there was no bar where I could take a girl from even if I took cash out of my wallet there and then. Right at the end I met one who was going to go, and I'd already spoken to her about a gift and she acted innocent as if she's not that sort of girl. I'd asked her if she'd be my goodbye Cambodia present, and I know she was going to go on my last night and she was an absolute crackajack. But the same thing happened. Just as it was getting past the point of no return someone came over and spoke to her, and she looked like she was going to be sick and she dropped me like a stone. When I was trying to talk her round she said, "I feel bad enough about this already" and "do you want me to die ?". And what about the one in Siem Reap who ran out of my room in tears ? Siem Reap I was being watched everywhere and no girl could go with me, and that's a fact.

Put it like this, I am sure there were girls who were targeted to be taken off me by whatever means, and I am sure (I am certain tbh) there were girls who were warned and even threatened not to go with me.

I also got at least 5 numbers from the place I regularly went for a massage, and without exception when I contacted them they said they couldn't see me. Maybe that's just a co-incidence I don't know, but the other stuff wasn't a co-inicidence.

Anyway, whatever. I can't really remember why I decided to do this now...
have you ever been checked out for HIV? maybe you gave a girl the HIV and words gone around town, its the only other thing i know that would get you those reactions
I've never checked positive for an STD. I had a full check....probably 12 months ago and clean as a whistle. I've had no high risk (eg condom breaks etc) since then. Maybe that is a rumour that someone's put round, but again even if that was the case, I think SOMEBODY would have talked to me about it.
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"gave a girl HIV". Sorry I didn't read that right.

No I did NOT give a girl HIV. I do not have HIV.
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