You don't seem to understand the fact that these women meet loads of men all the time. It's their job to pretend to like these men. They do not fall in love every five minutes.

John Bingham wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 12:31 pm You don't seem to understand the fact that these women meet loads of men all the time. It's their job to pretend to like these men. They do not fall in love every five minutes.

I know they don't. I also understand when I am with a girl who is working and when I am not.

You are a complete deadshit mate, go back an read all ya dribble, if you can’t answer your own questions then forget about looking for answers here. Learn to respect people and your life will change.
STOP looking at bar girls as street meat! They deserve respect, something clearly you can’t offer.

Sorry Pal but you're GODS GIFT TO FUCK ALL

BigDee wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 12:49 pm
Sorry Pal but you're GODS GIFT TO FUCK ALL

BigDee wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 12:49 pm You are a complete deadshit mate, go back an read all ya dribble, if you can’t answer your own questions then forget about looking for answers here. Learn to respect people and your life will change.
STOP looking at bar girls as street meat! They deserve respect, something clearly you can’t offer.

Sorry Pal but you're GODS GIFT TO FUCK ALL

There's one girl I looked at as what you call street meet (I didn't like her and thought she was bad news, but she would be the one exception to my general feeling that if a girl isn't into me then I wouldn't go with her even for money. that one I would take if she agreed to for money even if she didn't actually like me). Generally that's not what I'm into, and the girls who interest me aren't like that at all, and I'm not like that with them. You can form whatever opinion you like, but you're wrong. I might be a complete deadshit, but apart from that you're wrong.

Oh, and I will be god's gift to someone sometime, and we'll have everything we want, and all of this will be nothing apart from the girl I saw there for a while in 2018 who I'll always remember as she knows.

I just looked at this thread.
Like the bloke, my heart is both singing - and so very very sad.

Singing with an evil gleeful delight at this glimpse of the world these poor sad suckers inhabit.
A delightfully perfect description of soft-core sordidness, delusion, juvenile schoolboy romance, and men with a blissful ignorance of any kind of mature relationship.

Sad, sincerely sad, for all those poor sad-sack sods. - because this actually is real-life for so many of the lost and lonely men that our "sophisticated, superior western society" has created - then spat out.
My brothers, regardless.

Sorry to get maudlin, or whatever it is, but that is my honest emotional response.

Go check ya self into the nearest loony bin and get sorted out!

What is it, drink spiked or where you off ya nut?

Why the hell would any bar girl want to drug you? You are their income from the time you walk in and then out of her place of employment. Even if she needs to persevere with your disrespectful wondering hands.
Big deal you buy a girl a drink and she then needs to go dance, watch her dance for 5 min then she comes and finishes her drink. You on a tight schedule? Cant stand to look a sexy girl dancing for you?
But the obvious truth (that we all see but you can’t) is the bar manager, by telling the girl to go dance is actually tell that girl you are a rotten egg and to get clear of you! That my friend is a man respecting his employees and the reason the girls respect him in return.
Why would he be warning his girls away from you? Well you don’t need to be blind Freddy to read between those lines.

Get help bro

BigDee wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 1:10 pm Go check ya self into the nearest loony bin and get sorted out!

What is it, drink spiked or where you off ya nut?

Why the hell would any bar girl want to drug you? You are their income from the time you walk in and then out of her place of employment. Even if she needs to persevere with your disrespectful wondering hands.
Big deal you buy a girl a drink and she then needs to go dance, watch her dance for 5 min then she comes and finishes her drink. You on a tight schedule? Cant stand to look a sexy girl dancing for you?
But the obvious truth (that we all see but you can’t) is the bar manager, by telling the girl to go dance is actually tell that girl you are a rotten egg and to get clear of you! That my friend is a man respecting his employees and the reason the girls respect him in return.
Why would he be warning his girls away from you? Well you don’t need to be blind Freddy to read between those lines.

Get help bro

Again you're wrong. There may have been one or two instances where someone had made a misjudgment of me and thought I was as you say a "bad egg", but there were many cases where that was not the case. There were girls who knew me (a hell of a lot better than any third party who might have thought they were in a position to judge) who were frightened into leaving me. It went beyond, "I wouldn't go with him if I were you", and it went beyond "you are not to go with him". If they had been given a choice they would have stayed with me and not given a fuck what anyone else felt. You don't protect someone by threatening them, and some of these girls had been threatened or they would have stayed with me. I'm not a bad egg anyway. FFs, I agree I'm not god's gift (I'm far from perfect), but (not being rude) some of the assholes and deadbeats some of these girls go with !! Whatever.

"What is it, drink spiked or where you off ya nut?

Why the hell would any bar girl want to drug you? "

I haven't taken drugs for over 20 years. From the time when I did, I have a legacy where I will get passively stoned very quickly, and the night when I lost it I'd been in a bar for about half an hour where the place stunk of drugs. It's possible it was that. I had though refused to buy a drink for an influential lady who then said something to the girl I was drinking with and I wouldn't put it past that girl to put something in my drink. The 7s weekend I was probably passively stoned. I also had my drink spiked in Pontoon once and was out of it for 2 days so it is possible.

"You are their income from the time you walk in and then out of her place of employment."

There are many girls who would not let me buy them a drink. There are 2 girls who turned down $150 to go with me (they both got up and walked off). And there are girls who made out with me for a couple of hours who would buy a couple of drinks an hour, and who jerked me off without asking for any money, and who slept with me numerous times without asking for any money. So there you go.