John Bingham wrote: ↑Tue Oct 04, 2022 5:34 pm Paying someone in another country to pretend to be your girlfriend is far dumber.

I just hit the golden buzzer for that.

John Bingham wrote: ↑Tue Oct 04, 2022 5:34 pm Paying someone in another country to pretend to be your girlfriend is far dumber.

In my own personal situation a wife or a GF is the last thing that I want so not something I want to consider. I should probably join a senior citizens club or live in a retirement village and spend my days playing bingo. I'm not ready to do that yet. I'd rather contemplate an experiment that I can afford while bearing in mind all the potential pitfalls. I guess its fortunate that we're all different and what is a dumb idea to you has the the potential to be less than a dumb idea for me. I do appreciate the warnings that have been given on my post however and I'm definitely bearing then in mind.

How are ya mate? I'm the chick in question, that you're considering sponsoring. It's definitely worth it and I'll show you a good phone time (telegram is my correspondence vehicle of choice, due to my limited command of the English language. These, and a few others that we exchanged, are actually the only words I know) and stay loyal to you, don't worry about that bro.
Let's try it out for a year, to see if I'm comfortable with it.
Mom just had octuplets, again, and they all want buffaloes for their birthdays, and six of the triplets are pregnant, so let's round it off at five grand a month for them, and nothing for myself.
You can send a cash pickup to Wing with worldremit and you just have to put my real name: Bruce Jones. The name I gave you is just my bar name.
Talk to you soon mate.
Oh yeah, nearly forgot. It's been fucking pissing down here. Miss you.
PS. My sisters are looking for sponsors too if you've got any mates that have good hearts. Sweet as. Catch you soon.

LETTER FROM A BAR GIRL

Dear FunFlyer

I love you and I miss you too much. My friend bar say you old man look same same monkey but I know you hansum man. I have problem I write you before that buffalo me sick. Now it die fall down and dead in middle of rice field. Bad fortune when it fall it fall on papa and break leg he three place. Now he not work. Brother me make stretcher bamboo he take from roof house. Roof come down and rain in house. He take papa to hospital on motorcycle. Have big accident when he come home hit police car. Police say brother me blame. Police say he pay big money. Not worry darling motorcycle OK but police car bad broken. Bad luck make Mama heart problem. Doctor say she must triple by pass. I no understand but brother me say you understand.

You know darling I only work in bar and not go with man. I wait for you come back Hua Hin but if you no help me I go with many many many many farang get pay bills money.

Old people my village say you responsible if you send money me before buy medicine sick buffalo then it not die papa no break leg house have roof brother no ride into police car mama no have heart problem.

Send me 500,000 baht for my bank. Papa fix 50,000, new roof 30,000, new police car 200,000, Mama fix 150,000. I take off 2,000 baht for sell buffalo meat but me have to pay more hospital bill for 24 people have problem eat contaminated meat 12,000 baht. I do not know money England but my brother me say me it 52.2424 mid market rate close of trading yesterday. This means you send me 10,000 your pound.

I love you darling

Noi.

There is nowt wrong in sending someone some money to help them out once in a while. The issue is you seem to want regular contact and to send regular money which will inevitably lead to some sort of emotional connection - and that'll be from your end only becuase trust me, she won't care. You will be one of many.

Another thing that is inevitable is this -

At some point dowm the line she will hit you up for a consisderable amount of money. Her mama will get sick or her 5 year old nephew will need an operation. These things might well be true by the way. You will then find yourself in an awkward situation that, incredibly, you have paid to get yourself in. It will be hard not to send $3000 for an operation if you are recieving photos of her little nephew with a tumor the size of an apple languishing in a filthy hospital ward and without the operation the kid is going to die.

So the question is - do you really need that agro in your life?

Funflyer wrote: ↑Tue Oct 04, 2022 5:20 pm

Alex wrote: ↑Tue Oct 04, 2022 11:40 am Surely this is one of the dumbest ideas ever. The concept in itself is so ridiculous I'm almost at a loss for words.

Bar girl = pay as you go. If you want to sponsor a "girl", find (a good) one to be your girlfriend or wife.

Having a GF or a wife, really!! Surely this is one of the dumbest ideas ever. The concept in itself is so ridiculous I'm almost at a loss for words. LOL

Why ? You did it yourself, see page 1

Random Dude wrote: ↑Wed Oct 05, 2022 1:34 pm Is it this one girl in particular you're keen on, or would any female with a friendly disposition do? Because if it's more the idea of conversation etc that appeals to you rather than her specifically, why not look into dating websites/apps?

A guy I know spends a lot of time on those websites, he has (I think) a few Thai penpals - I suppose that's what they effectively are - he hooks up with one when he goes there but mostly he's just always messaging them from a different country and they're the female friends he doesn't have in real life.

Yea, a girl I’ve met and will see quite often as I’m a frequent visitor. Not just an online experience