Random experience in a girls bar
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Re: Random experience in a girls bar
So what happened to the '' sow your wild rice '' theory .clutchcargo wrote: ↑Wed Jun 27, 2018 8:30 amDon 't worry, it's a primal thing..something about wanting to sow your wild oats..
Cambodia,,,, Don't fall in love with her.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
Re: Random experience in a girls bar
KevinT wrote: ↑Tue Jun 26, 2018 11:07 pm Hi all, how can I start... I have a non Cambodian GF. And on the other hand, some days ago I started to have special feelings for a bar girl. I met this girl around 1y ago. I am about much older than her. She was the prettiest in the place, a butterfly? probably, and I started to feel something for her around those days. Then I stopped going to bars. But lately I had a couple of chances of going there again. And this time it was all more intense. In my comeback, she said she missed me, and she liked me, said I want to be your boyfriend, bla bla crap, and she kissed sooo good (yes, don't say it, because I am not stupid, I know she is a hooker). And I told her what I felt too. I was a bit drunk, but not super. After all this, my feelings started to get a bit stronger. And the stupidity of the situation made me feel more anxious than normal, I think of her all the day. I have this annoying feeling in my chest like when you are a stupid teenager in love but in a toxic way. Watching her stupid posts in FB, etc (she publishes without restriction, of course). All in all is a mistake from my side.
Last night of the 2 I saw her in this 2 week period, we talked and had fun together. I know she is a professional, and she knows how to make a customer feel as he is the great king of Persia. Yes, I know the theory about bar girls, but I still have this pressure in my chest. We even went a bit further than kisses... You know what I mean. She seems lovely to me even when she yells "hooker style" like if she wasn´t aware of how charming she is and didn´t care about rules, so natural. Normally she is calmed and speaks softly. I just feel so protective towards her, which of course she doesn't need, I know for her it's just a job, and not a nice one. I just have all these mixed feelings in my mind, between protection (she must be really poor like almost all Cambodians), pitty, attraction, admiration for her hard life, and stupidness from my side. I know our cultures are tottally opposite in everything (from way of chewing food to reading books). I guess I will overcome this in some weeks, because I planned not doing this ever again. But I am somehow feeling sad, like I wanted to give it a try but knowing it´s impossible. For my engaged situation and for the obvious differences. It´s not even a possibility. I think something is not working well inside me. Maybe Phnom Penh is making me go a bit insane...
Re: Random experience in a girls bar
Naive newcomber engaged to non-Asian has need for excitment, and to feel like Casanova. Falls victim to usual cunning of pretty bar girl and the dark workings of Phnom Penh. Makes usual noise about feeling bad. Believes her when she tells him she misses him and wants him as her boyfriend. Seeks approval to do the dirty on fiancee, 'cos he's a victim to his genes, the femme fatale, and the headonistic KoW.
Oh the glory. Fairytale in Cambodia.
Oh the glory. Fairytale in Cambodia.
Despite what angsta states, it’s clear from reading through his posts that angsta supports the free FreePalestine movement.
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I always like to turn the page and look at the other side of these stories,,,, violet , did this ever happen to you ? Like can you tell us the stories of how a cyclo driver fell for your charms and good looks when you first arrived here .violet wrote: ↑Wed Jun 27, 2018 10:53 am Naive newcomber engaged to non-Asian has need for excitment, and to feel like Casanova. Falls victim to usual cunning of pretty bar girl and the dark workings of Phnom Penh. Makes usual noise about feeling bad. Believes her when she tells him she misses him and wants him as her boyfriend. Seeks approval to do the dirty on fiancee, 'cos he's a victim to his genes, the femme fatale, and the headonistic KoW.
Oh the glory. Fairytale in Cambodia.
Cambodia,,,, Don't fall in love with her.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
Re: Random experience in a girls bar
Don't be stupid.
Edit, and shouldn't that be, did I fall for the charms of a cyclo driver? Same answer.
Edit, and shouldn't that be, did I fall for the charms of a cyclo driver? Same answer.
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Dude. Wake up! You're dreaming. That's not your girlfriend.
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Re: Random experience in a girls bar
". I have this annoying feeling in my chest..."
Maybe I'm wrong but I think the pressure point she's hitting is located further south. Wait a bit, it will move to the wallet.
Maybe I'm wrong but I think the pressure point she's hitting is located further south. Wait a bit, it will move to the wallet.
As my old Cajun bait seller used to say, "I opes you luck.
Re: Random experience in a girls bar
I would think a few have been in the same situation. Some will have, and still in a relationship with a girl from a bar. Good or bad.
Always "hope" but never "expect".
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You're not missing her bruh, your D is missing her.
As you said yourself, even the way of eating is different, in your normal state, you'll find eat repulsive but when she'll be eating something else, you'll forgive her and find many excuses for her behaviour blablabla...
Sorry for the poetry
And if you can't handle your feelings, go full for it and burn yourself, this is the only way to learn anyway
(SHE was different )
As you said yourself, even the way of eating is different, in your normal state, you'll find eat repulsive but when she'll be eating something else, you'll forgive her and find many excuses for her behaviour blablabla...
Sorry for the poetry
And if you can't handle your feelings, go full for it and burn yourself, this is the only way to learn anyway
(SHE was different )
Don't forget the water buffalo
Re: Random experience in a girls bar
Besotted comes to mind!
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