Brody wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2019 6:28 pm
I hope you strapped your shoes on tight because AW lives for these type of circuitous argumentative tête-à-têtes. They're his bread and butter. He'll grind you into a fine semantic powder. Personally, I wouldn't bother but don't say you weren't warned.

hunter8 wrote:Not relating to the rest of your post, but please get off your high horse that you like to ride so much for a moment and give it a little thought. Who do you think a bar girl thinks is a better man: moralizing but useless you or a typical sex tourist who helps this bar girl put food on her family’s table? There is no shade of grey answering this question, it has to be black or white.

Of course there are shades of grey with this question. Some customers just mildly hug and stroke the girls. Some want to feel their breasts. Some want to ram their finger straight up the girl’s pussy without even buying them one ladydrink. Do you think the girl views these different customers in the same way? Do YOU think that all these different guys are equal in their character?
And actually the girls DO think that the guy who never comes into their bar is a better man. They think that he has much more integrity and character than the butterfly guy who comes into the bar, gropes them up and barfines a different girl each night.



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Brody wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2019 6:28 pm I hope you strapped your shoes on tight because AW lives for these type of circuitous argumentative tête-à-têtes. They're his bread and butter. He'll grind you into a fine semantic powder. Personally, I wouldn't bother but don't say you weren't warned.

Yep, good advice that coz that's as far as it's gonna go. No more slanging between these two.

Well, having a wife proves nothing. Millions of wives in the world do not get their husbands’ intimate attention. Due to lack of better proof I will stand by my conjecture.

jah steu wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2019 6:44 pmAnd actually the girls DO think that the guy who never comes into their bar is a better man. They think that he has much more integrity and character than the butterfly guy who comes into the bar, gropes them up and barfines a different girl each night.



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Is this your personal opinion or did you run a survey among them?

I agree with the first part of your post, so i left it unquoted. Of course, there is a difference between customers and in their behavior.
Still, no customer is worse than a paying customer no matter how you slice it.

[Mod edit: don't say you weren't warned..take a few days off]

hunter8 wrote:Is this your personal opinion or did you run a survey among them?

I agree with the first part of your post, so i left it unquoted. Of course, there is a difference between customers and in their behavior.
Still, no customer is worse than a paying customer no matter how you slice it.

Both personal opinion and from talking to the girls a lot as I’ve owned bars here for the last seven years.
Yes the girls want paying customers - as you say these are the guys that provide them with money from ladydrinks, tips and barfines. And they like most of their regular customers.
But they almost all share a dream of finding a kind (and wealthy!) barang to look after them. And the guys they value and respect the most are the ones that don’t go out to the bars much.


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hunter8 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2019 6:47 pm Well, having a wife proves nothing. Millions of wives in the world do not get their husbands’ intimate attention. Due to lack of better proof I will stand by my conjecture.

Usually new posters don t spend their first week so forcefully sharing their point of view. What proof would you like AW to provide you? My guess this isn t your first walk in this park mate.

jah steu wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2019 7:13 pm

hunter8 wrote:Is this your personal opinion or did you run a survey among them?

I agree with the first part of your post, so i left it unquoted. Of course, there is a difference between customers and in their behavior.
Still, no customer is worse than a paying customer no matter how you slice it.

Both personal opinion and from talking to the girls a lot as I’ve owned bars here for the last seven years.
Yes the girls want paying customers - as you say these are the guys that provide them with money from ladydrinks, tips and barfines. And they like most of their regular customers.
But they almost all share a dream of finding a kind (and wealthy!) barang to look after them. And the guys they value and respect the most are the ones that don’t go out to the bars much.


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That cant be right, otherwise there would be a line 100 m long outside my door wanting to meet me.

You can’t eat dream though. I understand what you are saying here. Ok, they respect a man who doesn’t go to bars, that is all fine and dandy but this man is of no use to them. This man is a dream to them, honestly, what is the probability they will meet this man? One out of hundred, maybe? On the other hand, paying customers put food on their table every day, more or less. Cold hard truth of life.