Keeping in touch with a bar girl after first visit to Cambodia

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Age has everything to do with getting cut
Being a father is worth all the headache for the joy that comes with being a parent

To get cut at 30, 35 and lose out on the possibility of being a father or cause ur worried about getting a girl pregnant is crazy
Getting cut at 55 and up to me is right.
Personally dont feel its right, (or fair to the child), to father a child when ur old enough to be its grandfather and wont be around to see her/him grow up.

But thats just me
In a nation run by swine, all pigs are upward-mobile and the rest of us are fucked until we can put our acts together: not necessarily to win, but mainly to keep from losing completely. HST
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phuketrichard wrote: Tue Apr 10, 2018 4:45 pm Age has everything to do with getting cut
Being a father is worth all the headache for the joy that comes with being a parent

To get cut at 30, 35 and lose out on the possibility of being a father or cause ur worried about getting a girl pregnant is crazy
Getting cut at 55 and up to me is right.
Personally dont feel its right, (or fair to the child), to father a child when ur old enough to be its grandfather and wont be around to see her/him grow up.

But thats just me
my dad had the snip when he was 30-35, as he had already fathered 3 kids and knew he didnt want anymore
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Jamie_Lambo wrote: Tue Apr 10, 2018 5:25 pm
phuketrichard wrote: Tue Apr 10, 2018 4:45 pm Age has everything to do with getting cut
Being a father is worth all the headache for the joy that comes with being a parent

To get cut at 30, 35 and lose out on the possibility of being a father or cause ur worried about getting a girl pregnant is crazy
Getting cut at 55 and up to me is right.
Personally dont feel its right, (or fair to the child), to father a child when ur old enough to be its grandfather and wont be around to see her/him grow up.

But thats just me
my dad had the snip when he was 30-35, as he had already fathered 3 kids and knew he didnt want anymore
Point i was making is, dont get cut when ur young and have not YET fathered a kid and miss out on raising a kid :beer3:
In a nation run by swine, all pigs are upward-mobile and the rest of us are fucked until we can put our acts together: not necessarily to win, but mainly to keep from losing completely. HST
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Duncan wrote: Sun Apr 08, 2018 8:47 am
that genius wrote: Sun Apr 08, 2018 8:26 am Indeed, they should ban all births until all existing kids are adopted.

And after. that we should have an " adopt an adult "" program
There is already a long queue for me.
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phuketrichard wrote: Tue Apr 10, 2018 5:40 pm
Jamie_Lambo wrote: Tue Apr 10, 2018 5:25 pm
phuketrichard wrote: Tue Apr 10, 2018 4:45 pm Age has everything to do with getting cut
Being a father is worth all the headache for the joy that comes with being a parent

To get cut at 30, 35 and lose out on the possibility of being a father or cause ur worried about getting a girl pregnant is crazy
Getting cut at 55 and up to me is right.
Personally dont feel its right, (or fair to the child), to father a child when ur old enough to be its grandfather and wont be around to see her/him grow up.

But thats just me
my dad had the snip when he was 30-35, as he had already fathered 3 kids and knew he didnt want anymore
Point i was making is, dont get cut when ur young and have not YET fathered a kid and miss out on raising a kid :beer3:
yeah deffo not a good form of contraception for a young childless chappy lol :dragonchase:
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Good thread this, I have had some experience with these girls. And a Thai wife nearly 40 years ago.
I got great pleasure last Friday when my half Thai son was in town. He played tennis and cricket with the two little Khmer daughters.
Many girls in the bar are new it newish. Some have no phones at all, others only cheap phones. It is not unusual. Most girls are not hardened whores and are victims of circumstance. The boyfriend or husband is gone. He is not hanging around in the background as in Thailand.
I think most Khmer girls just want a couple of kids and a husband. I have one like this, well maybe.
The OP should reflect on advice from people here and then just buy her a fucking phone. I have bought shitloads of them, along with motos etc.
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I had my cut 20 years ago and now at 55 I really don't want kids anymore. I have raised mine and other kids more than enough.

I am so glad i did it! Only my younger Khmer girlfriend regrets it a lot. She would like to have kids with me, but luckily, I can't anymore. I told her from day one, when we met, that she would have to accept it. I could have kept it a secret, but I want to be honest and fair.
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