Good girls in Phnom Penh

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stupid-barang wrote: Wed Oct 30, 2019 6:49 pm The Pizza Company, all the girls there are wifey material.
Try the Master Suki Soup at Aeon 1.

If the waitresses skirts were any shorter, they'd be belts.

My compliments to the hiring manager.

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RedJohny wrote: Sun Oct 27, 2019 6:19 pm Hello,
I moved to Phnom Penh two weeks ago and I struggle a bit to understand the local girls and "dating market". I lived in Bangkok for 2 years and it was quite easy to find a normal girl (for relationship or friendship) on Tinder or approach a girl on the street. But in Cambodia all of my matches on Tinder seems to be hookers or fake profiles. I can see many cute girls on the street or in the mall, but they do not seem interested in a conversation.
What is your experience and the best way to find a decent girl in Phnom Penh for a relationship (or even friendship) for a European guy in late 20's? (I am not interested in hookers or bar girls)
Thank's for any honest advise, please no trolling.
this ain't Thailand, proximity to Thailand has no bearing and what goes on here, I'd say suck up your anti pay for play rule and get a good one to teach you a bit about Cambodia. Leave the good girls alone and just be polite and nice to them. Once again proximity to Thailand has absolutely zero bearing on this place so don't project your Thai experiences here and learn - a good and experienced bar girl or even a Sorya vet will help.
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Cultural proximity certainly has a big influence on surrounding cultures including the thoughts and attitudes of the people. But that doesn't make them the same. Cambodia has high levels of adultery yet is conservative in other dimensions. Much of rural Thailand is also like that.

If you wanted to compare Bangkok to something near by I'd guess another big city would have to do. Maybe KL, Singapore, or Jakarta.
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programmer wrote: Fri Nov 01, 2019 6:40 pm Cultural proximity certainly has a big influence on surrounding cultures including the thoughts and attitudes of the people. But that doesn't make them the same. Cambodia has high levels of adultery yet is conservative in other dimensions. Much of rural Thailand is also like that.

If you wanted to compare Bangkok to something near by I'd guess another big city would have to do. Maybe KL, Singapore, or Jakarta.
Programmer, you live in Pattaya, have no experience in either the KOW or rural Thailand, what is the source of these gems of insight you share?
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Again thank you all for your replies. I understand it is hard to get the kind of the girl I am looking for in PP. I do not want to get married yet and also I do not want to stay in celibate throughout my stay here, so I willing to try, and open a door to something new. But so far based on my observations, the girls in these bars here are quite old (35, 40?). I still think I can do better, especially if I am supposed to pay for them.
Again, I have basically no experience with these kind of things, but in Thailand I have seen that most of the girls in bars are around 20 y.o and are very attractive. Is there a place or bar in PP, where I can meet young cute girls - even if I have to pay for their drinks, etc? Are there any risks or scams to be aware of before going to such place?
I am sure these questions might sound stupid to many of you, but so far in my life I have never faced a situation when I would have to pay for an attention or fun with a girl :D Please feel free to send me a private message if you do no want to share this info publicly.
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RedJohny wrote: Sat Nov 02, 2019 2:19 pmso far in my life I have never faced a situation when I would have to pay for an attention or fun with a girl :D
Well you should try it, it’s a lot of fun. Doing that you support her and her family too, it’s a noble cause. What else to spend money on if not women?

There are plenty of 20-25yo girls in the bars but they are usually shy, often you have to approach them vs older ladies approaching you. Also they prefer aged barangs hoping to find one that marries them and dies quickly leaving them a fortune lol.
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Money's just for the room, the love is free.
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RedJohny wrote: Sun Oct 27, 2019 6:19 pm What is your experience and the best way to find a decent girl in Phnom Penh for a relationship (or even friendship) for a European guy in late 20's? (I am not interested in hookers or bar girls)
If you are not interested in hookers.
Stay away from hooker bars. Full stop.

Then it is pretty much like anywhere else.
Find a place with the vibes and kind of people that you like.
Then simply look groovy, act cool and don't dribble.
Easy.

But really best way to meet "good girls" is probably just in your everyday life
if you are a"good man" they will pick that up pretty quick,
and even their Mums will be madly grinning and nodding their head at your every utterance.

Disengaging is the real problem.
Maybe don't go too far with someone you don't want to spend the rest of your life with.
That could make things a bit less stressful in the future - and certainly your life will be safer.

Lol, best wishes
and relax!
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SternAAlbifrons wrote: Sat Nov 02, 2019 9:59 pm Disengaging is the real problem.
Ha! This is so true. Finding a partner here is not as difficult as trying to lose one when things don't work out.
I have never had so many problems with this but I've heard of so many stalking scenes when some foreigner
decides to drop out of the relationship. The Num Cake girl was a good example, she went as far as getting
her ex arrested for revenge porn (which didn't exist) just so he would come back to her.

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Women are like hurricanes.

When they first arrive they are all wet and wild and when they go they take your house and car.
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