Ethics of checking up on a girl
Ethics of checking up on a girl
Hey guys where do you come down on this -- you think it's ok to check up on girls after you leave?
I just spent a couple weeks in Phnom Penh.. met a sweet girl at a bar who I just could not figure out. I've been around been with many bar girls but got an all together different vibe off this one. She talked in stories and I find it unlikely much of what she told me, but never did see anything untrue. I suspect I was just another customer/tourist and she'll be on to the next shortly. But I had some genuine feelings for the girl and *if*, she was being honest, then I would like to keep in contact and see her again. But I don't know what she's really about.
In a lot of ways I guess I would be relieved to find out she was playing games. Or maybe just want to check my own gut feelings.
I'm feeling apprehensive about having someone go check up on her stories - is she working at the bar, looking for customers etc. If she's back to work, no worries, it's her life, but I would like to know what's real.
Thoughts? Any ethical way of doing this? I'm not looking to make a fool of anyone or make problems for anyone.
Thanks guys
I just spent a couple weeks in Phnom Penh.. met a sweet girl at a bar who I just could not figure out. I've been around been with many bar girls but got an all together different vibe off this one. She talked in stories and I find it unlikely much of what she told me, but never did see anything untrue. I suspect I was just another customer/tourist and she'll be on to the next shortly. But I had some genuine feelings for the girl and *if*, she was being honest, then I would like to keep in contact and see her again. But I don't know what she's really about.
In a lot of ways I guess I would be relieved to find out she was playing games. Or maybe just want to check my own gut feelings.
I'm feeling apprehensive about having someone go check up on her stories - is she working at the bar, looking for customers etc. If she's back to work, no worries, it's her life, but I would like to know what's real.
Thoughts? Any ethical way of doing this? I'm not looking to make a fool of anyone or make problems for anyone.
Thanks guys
Re: Ethics of checking up on a girl
Nope, I promise you she treats every other guy on the other side of the bar the exact same and probably has had better experiences with them.
Hate to be blunt but you're no one special to a bar girl, even if your dick is 20 inches long and your wallet can't even fit under a moto seat.
Hate to be blunt but you're no one special to a bar girl, even if your dick is 20 inches long and your wallet can't even fit under a moto seat.
Re: Ethics of checking up on a girl
Great, another Jenny thread
Money can't buy happiness but it can buy beer
Re: Ethics of checking up on a girl
you entered in a hostess bar you already lost
forget it and hang out elsewhere if you look for a gf
forget it and hang out elsewhere if you look for a gf
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Re: Ethics of checking up on a girl
PRETTY WOMAN; Cambodia 2021
work is for people who cant find truffles
Re: Ethics of checking up on a girl
bargirls are deperate for customers for about 18 months, they of course want to stay a couple of weeks with a barang, as there is no-one in the bars !! I uselally check with the family, if you are introduced to the family and/or know her daughter(s), thats a good step in the right direction. Beware if in the family-house is living some 'nephew", who looks a bit odd and doesnt want to speak to you. He probably is just her husband and did longtime accept she makes money going with barangs !! ??
If not, just hit another-one on your next trip !!
If not, just hit another-one on your next trip !!
Re: Ethics of checking up on a girl
Of course it's not ethical, but if you think it's worth it you can give it a try. While the cynical replies above are true in over 90% of the cases your gut feeling might be true, or your curiosity might be for real.
Just give it try. Preferably send someone able to speak the local lingo. Make clear what info you're after before committing to anything. It might be money badly spent but it maybe will answer some questions you have
Re: Ethics of checking up on a girl
Oh dear, or, how great threads start?
so .. we got 2 weeks.. and a serial John so farI've been around been with many bar girls
Well, to be fair, you were only here for 2 weeks.She talked in stories and I find it unlikely much of what she told me, but never did see anything untrue.
Yep. That you got rightI suspect I was just another customer/tourist and she'll be on to the next shortly.
Unlikely*if*, she was being honest
Oh I think I know who's going to be made a fool ofI'm not looking to make a fool of anyone
Re: Ethics of checking up on a girl
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