Phnom Penh Pal wrote: ↑Mon Jul 05, 2021 11:20 pm The second day of my son's life was much the same as the first. Except this time I stayed in only one bar for the duration. The cashier was an admirer and I pretended that I was single. She didn't believe me. She had just got back from a stint working in Japan and I surmised that it was a miserable time for her. I like the challenge of turning that frown upside down so I used my charisma. I was there for several Jameson's and bought her a whiskey and gave her a nice tip when settling the bill. I enjoyed the conversation and bid her farewell. Whilst walking off I thought if I wasn't married perhaps something could happen. If you haven't seen it already I'd recommend watching the Marilyn Monroe film Seven Year Itch where temptation the theme.

If you want to play with tipsy bar girls or just join the social scene then I suppose the time to go out is late and not 5PM like I had done. However I had my instructions from the missus. "Go out and relax, but don't stay out too late". I respected her wishes and returned before 8PM on both nights and even bought home dinner for those family members at the apartment.

The following morning I checked my wife and son out of the hospital clinic and paid the bill. For the next few weeks the apartment was like a busy restaurant kitchen with many helping hands and visitors. At night there was a horde of female family members sleeping on the lounge floor with the balcony doors open for cool air. I felt a little odd retiring to the marital suite alone. With the air con whirring loudly all night I wouldn't be disturbed by crying baby or the early risers in the lounge.

xX.TROPA.Xx wrote: ↑Tue Jul 06, 2021 8:49 amcringe.

xX.TROPA.Xx wrote: ↑Tue Jul 06, 2021 9:48 am
okay i'll do it... PLEASE stfu

Grand Barong wrote: ↑Thu Jul 22, 2021 6:03 pm
Flirting with tipsy bargirls and thinking what could have happened if you were not married is a bizarre mindset for someone who has just left his newborn child and wife?? Lucky for you, that your wife is so comfortable with the bar scene i guess.. as you have stated you met her when she called out to you as you walked past a hostess bar... Did she say "Hello hansum man, where you go"?

Freightdog wrote: ↑Thu Jul 22, 2021 4:59 am Wetting the baby’s head is one thing, but there did seem to be some emphasis on the girly bar bit, some thought given to the what if?

Sudden realisation that life has changed? Responsibilities are very much towards another. Regrets? Time to put aside childish things and all that.

John Bingham wrote: ↑Tue Jul 06, 2021 12:09 am That was painful to read. Think of your audience, nobody has time for this shit.

Phnom Penh Pal wrote: ↑Fri Jul 23, 2021 12:57 am

Freightdog wrote: ↑Thu Jul 22, 2021 4:59 am Wetting the baby’s head is one thing, but there did seem to be some emphasis on the girly bar bit, some thought given to the what if?

Sudden realisation that life has changed? Responsibilities are very much towards another. Regrets? Time to put aside childish things and all that.

Now, you're being childish. You're not the only one, but as your a frequent offender I'm going to tell you straight.

A bar is a bar in Cambodia and yes there are girls inside.
The girls are either customers, available staff, staff on drinks commission and bar staff who are not available, staff that aren't barfinable, cashiers, cooks and cleaning staff. There are very few male bar employee's in PP.

In my story I chatted with the cashier who was well educated, honest, had open eyes due to overseas travelling and therefore more of a conversationalist than a regular bar worker. She had worked in Japan for a number of years.

Cashiers tend to be educated and trustworthy, and less likely to be 'pulled'. I know a number of cashiers. My wife's best friend - only ever 'dated' two guys. The cashier at Alice pub, the owner's sister - a very gentle young girl and probably a virgin. My wife's cousin - a younger sister of the older cousin. Straight out of high school and had alot of good qualities such as her management skills. Also never given her virginity.

I was after intelligent conversation and this girl I chattes with was a catch. I merely said IF I was single I may have shown genuine interest to her.

Phnom Penh Pal wrote: ↑Fri Jul 23, 2021 12:37 am

Grand Barong wrote: ↑Thu Jul 22, 2021 6:03 pm
Flirting with tipsy bargirls and thinking what could have happened if you were not married is a bizarre mindset for someone who has just left his newborn child and wife?? Lucky for you, that your wife is so comfortable with the bar scene i guess.. as you have stated you met her when she called out to you as you walked past a hostess bar... Did she say "Hello hansum man, where you go"?

I've said it before. You trolls spoil it for everybody else. Most of the membership reading shit like what I quote from you are too scared to post anything for fear of being hounded.