My comment is not about any specific act sorry, it was a generalization about lifestyle and differences in choices and preferences.

I should have phrased it better sorry, as in
- If I am doing something you don't like- don't do it. But don't judge me for doing it.

Does that make more sense?


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rozzieoz wrote:My comment is not about any specific act sorry, it was a generalization about lifestyle and differences in choices and preferences.

I should have phrased it better sorry, as in
- If I am doing something you don't like- don't do it. But don't judge me for doing it.

Does that make more sense?

Ah. That clears it up. Thanks.

Rutger I'm bisexual and polyamorous so as you can imagine there's a lot of things about my lifestyle that many people don't understand.

I love it when people ask questions because they are genuinely interested in understanding polyamory- we have made some awesome friends in SNV who totally accept us and our "weird" situation.


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rozzieoz wrote:Rutger I'm bisexual and polyamorous so as you can imagine there's a lot of things about my lifestyle that many people don't understand.

I love it when people ask questions because they are genuinely interested in understanding polyamory- we have made some awesome friends in SNV who totally accept us and our "weird" situation.

Does polyamory sometimes equate to group sex, or is it that sex is allowable with several different people within some agreement, but only one-on-one at a time? If that is too persoanl a question then I''ll just' drop it. Your situation does bring up questions. I get the concept, just not the actual practice. I think many men would love to see their girlfriend with another woman, but not with another man.

Should we start a new topic? I'd love to answer questions and talk about it


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rozzieoz wrote:Should we start a new topic? I'd love to answer questions and talk about it

Either way. This OP topic has run its course.

rozzieoz wrote:Rutger I'm bisexual and polyamorous so as you can imagine there's a lot of things about my lifestyle that many people don't understand.

I love it when people ask questions because they are genuinely interested in understanding polyamory- we have made some awesome friends in SNV who totally accept us and our "weird" situation.


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why do u feel the need to announce it on a forum? If it true ,
how did u become Bi, an encounter , not of ur choice, by an older man
or simple curiosity?

Ok then
The basis of polyamory is that we are capable of loving more than one person. It's about having multiple relationships that each fulfill you in a different way.

I compare it to friendships in general - if you were told you could only have one friend for the rest of your life - so pick wisely, you would say that's ridiculous.

But add hugs and kisses in the mix and suddenly "there can be only one."

Polyamory is about accepting that you don't own your partner, they are with you by choice and may fall in love with someone else as well.

Polyamory plays out differently for everyone - there is no "set rule" about how a poly relationship works.

There is an awesome show called Polyamory- married and dating (two seasons) if you can download it - lots of tits, ass and some really good explanations. The show follows several different poly relationships and is really interesting.

Our situation is a common one, where my man and I share a mutual girlfriend.
The three of us are in what's known as a "closed triad" ( I hate the labels but for explanation purposes they can be useful), where the three of us are monogamous and faithful to one another.


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If more people accepted polyamory, a lot less marriages would break down.


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rozzieoz wrote:Ok then
The basis of polyamory is that we are capable of loving more than one person. It's about having multiple relationships that each fulfill you in a different way.

I compare it to friendships in general - if you were told you could only have one friend for the rest of your life - so pick wisely, you would say that's ridiculous.

But add hugs and kisses in the mix and suddenly "there can be only one."

Polyamory is about accepting that you don't own your partner, they are with you by choice and may fall in love with someone else as well.

Polyamory plays out differently for everyone - there is no "set rule" about how a poly relationship works.

There is an awesome show called Polyamory- married and dating (two seasons) if you can download it - lots of tits, ass and some really good explanations. The show follows several different poly relationships and is really interesting.

Our situation is a common one, where my man and I share a mutual girlfriend.
The three of us are in what's known as a "closed triad" ( I hate the labels but for explanation purposes they can be useful), where the three of us are monogamous and faithful to one another.


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Interesting.

Genuine question, would your man be just as happy if that girlfriend was a boyfriend?