Do expat Cambodian women have a responsibility to be role models for women in Cambodia ?

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Do expat Cambodian women have a responsibility to be role models for women in Cambodia ?

Post by Confused » Fri Feb 07, 2020 1:27 am

I recently saw a video on LinkedIn of an Australian news reader.

She was of Aisan descent and I thought very likely Cambodian.

She seemed like a very nice woman, and had obviously done extremely well in life.

I commented on the video (where I think she was chatting away about life in America where she'd recently moved), and I commented saying what a pleasure it was to see a woman of south east Asian descent doing so well in life, and so happy. I didn't get a response to the comment.

A couple of weeks later I saw another video of hers (a mutual connection who was a friend of hers was commenting on her videos which is why I came to notice them), in which she was saying what a shame it was that racists would comment on her Asian descent, when in fact she wasn't Asian, she was Australian.

I commented saying that whilst I respected her right to self-identify, I thought it was a shame that she couldn't embrace both her Australianness and her Cambodian/Asian heritage, and be a role model for Cambodian women who haven't had the opportunities that she has and made such brilliant use of. Although I didn't say it, I actually thought that if anyone was racist, it was someone who effectively denied their own heritage.

She deleted the comment and then blocked me.

Was I right to raise this point, or is it just up to the woman to decide whether she wants to embrace her Asian heritage or not ?
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Re: Do expat Cambodian women have a responsibility to be role models for women in Cambodia ?

Post by Jerry Atrick » Fri Feb 07, 2020 1:34 am

Is this Trappers final form?
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Post by SternAAlbifrons » Fri Feb 07, 2020 2:01 am

Confused.

good first name
i can suggest an equally suitable middle and last too, if you want.
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Re: Do expat Cambodian women have a responsibility to be role models for women in Cambodia ?

Post by WildA » Fri Feb 07, 2020 2:11 am

Confused wrote:
Fri Feb 07, 2020 1:27 am
I recently saw a video on LinkedIn of an Australian news reader.

She was of Aisan descent and I thought very likely Cambodian.

She seemed like a very nice woman, and had obviously done extremely well in life.

I commented on the video (where I think she was chatting away about life in America where she'd recently moved), and I commented saying what a pleasure it was to see a woman of south east Asian descent doing so well in life, and so happy. I didn't get a response to the comment.

A couple of weeks later I saw another video of hers (a mutual connection who was a friend of hers was commenting on her videos which is why I came to notice them), in which she was saying what a shame it was that racists would comment on her Asian descent, when in fact she wasn't Asian, she was Australian.

I commented saying that whilst I respected her right to self-identify, I thought it was a shame that she couldn't embrace both her Australianness and her Cambodian/Asian heritage, and be a role model for Cambodian women who haven't had the opportunities that she has and made such brilliant use of. Although I didn't say it, I actually thought that if anyone was racist, it was someone who effectively denied their own heritage.

She deleted the comment and then blocked me.

Was I right to raise this point, or is it just up to the woman to decide whether she wants to embrace her Asian heritage or not ?
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Post by SternAAlbifrons » Fri Feb 07, 2020 2:20 am

delete/edit/rewrite/start again/change my mood

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Re: Do expat Cambodian women have a responsibility to be role models for women in Cambodia ?

Post by Confused » Fri Feb 07, 2020 2:25 am

So 4 comments and I've been accused of being a Democrat and a Trumpist.

Do you see why I'm confused ?

Edit: I see that the trump reference has been removed.

Still, Confused.
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Post by WildA » Fri Feb 07, 2020 7:19 am

I like most yanks, judge people on their passports, not on their skin color or facial features.

And my very humble opinion, normal folks don't comment on videos or anyting come from someone they don't know
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Post by hanno » Fri Feb 07, 2020 7:24 am

Can't be Trapper, English is too good. But just as annoying.
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Post by BigDee » Fri Feb 07, 2020 7:51 am

continuing to pump up the post count I see :good:
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Re: Do expat Cambodian women have a responsibility to be role models for women in Cambodia ?

Post by rozzieoz » Fri Feb 07, 2020 8:19 am

Men just love telling women what they should do.

You have no idea what she’s been through so just mind your own business.
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