CEOCambodiaNews wrote: ↑Sun Aug 21, 2016 11:23 pmQuite frankly, we might ask what is point of living 120 years without sex in order to do yoga.

I would be hard-pressed to spend an hour per day on sex. I think that even the prettiest woman will at some point fail to encourage you to have sex with her again. So, what do you do after having had your sex? I could spend the whole day -- hours in a row -- discussing philosophy, no sweat. I work mostly because doing nothing is much more boring, while work can give you kick. Sex does not occupy much time in the daily schedule even of for men who are not celibate at all. In other words, sex is like money. It is only of importance if you severely lack it. Even though sex is a pleasant pastime, the idea of not having sex at all, is also not much of a stretch. You could probably train yourself not to bother with it, if need be.

eriksank wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 11:31 am

CEOCambodiaNews wrote: ↑Sun Aug 21, 2016 11:23 pmQuite frankly, we might ask what is point of living 120 years without sex in order to do yoga.

I would be hard-pressed to spend an hour per day on sex. I think that even the prettiest woman will at some point fail to encourage you to have sex with her again. So, what do you do after having had your sex? I could spend the whole day -- hours in a row -- discussing philosophy, no sweat. I work mostly because doing nothing is much more boring, while work can give you kick. Sex does not occupy much time in the daily schedule even of for men who are not celibate at all. In other words, sex is like money. It is only of importance if you severely lack it. Even though sex is a pleasant pastime, the idea of not having sex at all, is also not much of a stretch. You could probably train yourself not to bother with it, if need be.

im guessing you are a computer nerd that doesnt get much sex?

sex like money is addictive, due to the endorphines released when ejaculating/spending,
thats why people who have bi-polar become sex-addicts or get into loads of debt through excessive spending

sex can be the opposite to what you say... "It is only of importance if you severely lack it."... the longer you go without it, the less you desire it, the more often you get it, the greater the desire becomes, due to the reasons above,
its not the sex that becomes less desirable, more so the person you are having it with, either due to their change of appearance or lack of creativity in the bedroom, the sex is still desirable, if it wasnt there would be no such things as affairs or adultery

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 2:21 pmim guessing you are a computer nerd that doesnt get much sex?

Being involuntarily short of sex in Southeast Asia? I have never heard of that ...

Well, actually, it could go wrong, if you seek to get into dating. I don't do dating.

I just pay the young woman's bride price.

I am not particularly keen on renting by the hour, or for the night either. I rather ask the young woman where her parents are, and then I ask the parents, how much for the damage. I have never heard of parents asking for more than something like the price of motorbike or so. It is totally affordable.

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 2:21 pmits not the sex that becomes less desirable, more so the person you are having it with, either due to their change of appearance or lack of creativity in the bedroom, the sex is still desirable, if it wasnt there would be no such things as affairs or adultery

If you are bored with the first one, then pay the price for a second one. A man should be able to handle even three or four!

Actually, if you get them from staunchly pagan families, they do not even count towards any limit. You are allowed to acquire as many pagan females as you want.

In my point of view, there is never a reason not to proceed by simply paying off the girl's ascendants. I don't want to invest my time in telling the girl an endless pile of bullshit and other dating nonsense. In the same amount of time, I just make money by doing other stuff; way more than I would have to pay her parents. It is a question of efficiency and minimizing effort. Of course, it does not work for all men. Some men have no other option than to try to bullshit the girl. That won't last either. The girl may initially like the guy's bullshit, but in the end, she is still going to need cash too. That is where it all stops. So, dating is an evolutionary dead end, only suitable for men who are not sufficiently, financially convincing, not even in the poorer areas of Southeast Asia.

eriksank wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 2:55 pm

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 2:21 pmim guessing you are a computer nerd that doesnt get much sex?

Being involuntarily short of sex in Southeast Asia? I have never heard of that ...

Well, actually, it could go wrong, if you seek to get into dating. I don't do dating.

I just pay the young woman's bride price.

I am not particularly keen on renting by the hour, or for the night either. I rather ask the young woman where her parents are, and then I ask the parents, how much for the damage. I have never heard of parents asking for more than something like the price of motorbike or so. It is totally affordable.

what the hell are you baffling on about? lol
you pay the bride price to the parents, usually the money goes towards the wedding
how many times have you asked a young girl where her parents are to ask how much?
"you have never heard of"? so youre not actually talking from experience?
how many motorbikes have you given out to have sex with a girl?

eriksank wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 2:55 pm

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 2:21 pmits not the sex that becomes less desirable, more so the person you are having it with, either due to their change of appearance or lack of creativity in the bedroom, the sex is still desirable, if it wasnt there would be no such things as affairs or adultery

If you are bored with the first one, then pay the price for a second one. A man should be able to handle even three or four!

Actually, if you get them from staunchly pagan families, they do not even count towards any limit. You are allowed to acquire as many pagan females as you want.

In my point of view, there is never a reason not to proceed by simply paying off the girl's ascendants. I don't want to invest my time in telling the girl an endless pile of bullshit and other dating nonsense. In the same amount of time, I just make money by doing other stuff; way more than I would have to pay her parents. It is a question of efficiency and minimizing effort. Of course, it does not work for all men. Some men have no other option than to try to bullshit the girl. That won't last either. The girl may initially like the guy's bullshit, but in the end, she is still going to need cash too. That is where it all stops. So, dating is an evolutionary dead end, only suitable for men who are not sufficiently, financially convincing, not even in the poorer areas of Southeast Asia.

you dont invest your time in chatting up girls, you just invest your time and money in paying her parents and buying them motorbikes? and thats not classed as bullshit? its still bullshit mate
you make it sound like your unable to chat up a girl normally and have to result in talking to her parents to bribe them into letting you sleep with their daughter?
as im sure you cant be marrying all these girls whos bride prices you keep paying?

i dont mean for this to sound offensive but you do sound abit clueless and a bit socially awkward lol
you have your own small narrow minded view of sex/work etc,
but its a big wide world out there, that you need to go out and experience, maybe spend too much time behind your computer screen mate

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 3:36 pmyou dont invest your time in chatting up girls, you just invest your time and money in paying her parents and buying them motorbikes? and thats not classed as bullshit? its still bullshit mate ... you make it sound like your unable to chat up a girl normally and have to result in talking to her parents to bribe them into letting you sleep with their daughter? as im sure you cant be marrying all these girls whos bride prices you keep paying?

It does not matter what you think. What matters, is what the girl and her parents think, and any serious Cambodian girl prefers to see the man coming with a proposal to pay her brideprice than to listen to your bullshit. This is Cambodia. This is not just a country of unbeliever dogs. I go to Malaysia and it is the same. I am supposed to pay the girl's mahar. Otherwise, they will classify me, like they would classify you: a filthy kaffir dog. I do not wish to be classified like that.

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 3:36 pmi dont mean for this to sound offensive but you do sound abit clueless and a bit socially awkward lol

You really don't geddit, do you? Half the planet believes that you are a filthy unbeliever. kaffir dog. It is you who are considered to be a filthy animal, and not me. In Cambodia, I just pay the girl's bride price. You don't, and that is why the Cambodians are right to look down on you. You and your ways are considered filthy. Only animals just start copulating without paying a bride price.

eriksank wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 5:12 pm

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 3:36 pmyou dont invest your time in chatting up girls, you just invest your time and money in paying her parents and buying them motorbikes? and thats not classed as bullshit? its still bullshit mate ... you make it sound like your unable to chat up a girl normally and have to result in talking to her parents to bribe them into letting you sleep with their daughter? as im sure you cant be marrying all these girls whos bride prices you keep paying?

It does not matter what you think. What matters, is what the girl and her parents think, and any serious Cambodian girl prefers to see the man coming with a proposal to pay her brideprice than to listen to your bullshit. This is Cambodia. This is not just a country of unbeliever dogs. I go to Malaysia and it is the same. I am supposed to pay the girl's mahar. Otherwise, they will classify me, like they would classify you: a filthy kaffir dog. I do not wish to be classified like that.

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 3:36 pmi dont mean for this to sound offensive but you do sound abit clueless and a bit socially awkward lol

You really don't geddit, do you? Half the planet believes that you are a filthy unbeliever. kaffir dog. It is you who are considered to be a filthy animal, and not me. In Cambodia, I just pay the girl's bride price. You don't, and that is why the Cambodians are right to look down on you. You and your ways are considered filthy. Only animals just start copulating without paying a bride price.

lol you can call me a dog all you want, you dont know me, how do you that Cambodians look down on me lol
you talk about bride prices like youre fully ingrained into the culture, do you speak khmer? read and write khmer?
what do you say when you go ask about the bride price? lol

you keep talking about bride prices? how many of these girls have you married? lol
how much do you normally pay for these bride prices?
what do you get in return?
you make no sense lol

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 5:43 pmlol you can call me a dog all you want, you dont know me, how do you that Cambodians look down on me lol

Look, I don't care. I pay the bride price because the amount is peanuts for me anyway. So, I prefer to pay than to engage in "dating", i.e. to incessantly bullshit with the girl. It is not hard to find girls in Cambodia who also prefer it in the traditional way.

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 5:43 pmhow much do you normally pay for these bride prices? what do you get in return? you make no sense lol

Look, this is simply how it works in Cambodia. If you really want the girl, and unless she is a whore, you will have to go to her family and pay her bride price. I am perfectly ok with that. The girl generally prefers to be the first and only woman, but they also adapt to the real word. If the guy's got money, you will probably not be his only major/minor wife. That is not how it works. If a Cambodian man only has one wife, that is usually because he has no money. I did not come to Cambodia to change their traditions. I repeat, I am perfectly ok with them, as long as they are not contrary to mandatory provisions in religion, which they aren't.

By the way, you know exactly what demographic groups calls people with your opinion "kaffir dogs". I totally understand why they think like that. I actually very much sympathize with their view on the matter, and I certainly do not want to go through life date-raping dumb, drunken pagan unbeliever females who should know better than to follow a man to his bedroom, and then have the temerity to complain that he is just like Julian Assange and did not use a condom!

eriksank wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 6:03 pm

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 5:43 pmlol you can call me a dog all you want, you dont know me, how do you that Cambodians look down on me lol

Look, I don't care. I pay the bride price because the amount is peanuts for me anyway. So, I prefer to pay than to engage in "dating", i.e. to incessantly bullshit with the girl. It is not hard to find girls in Cambodia who also prefer it in the traditional way.

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Wed May 03, 2017 5:43 pmhow much do you normally pay for these bride prices? what do you get in return? you make no sense lol

Look, this is simply how it works in Cambodia. If you really want the girl, and unless she is a whore, you will have to go to her family and pay her bride price. I am perfectly ok with that. The girl generally prefers to be the first and only woman, but they also adapt to the real word. If the guy's got money, you will probably not be his only major/minor wife. That is not how it works. If a Cambodian man only has one wife, that is usually because he has no money. I did not come to Cambodia to change their traditions. I repeat, I am perfectly ok with them, as long as they are not contrary to mandatory provisions in religion, which they aren't.

By the way, you know exactly what demographic groups calls people with your opinion "kaffir dogs". I totally understand why they think like that. I actually very much sympathize with their view on the matter, and I certainly do not want to go through life date-raping dumb, drunken pagan unbeliever females who should know better than to follow a man to his bedroom, and then have the temerity to complain that he is just like Julian Assange and did not use a condom!

mate you are clueless, you think you know everything in your own little bubble, but you are in your own little world
again unless you answer my questions you are just talking a load of bullshit....
how much do you pay each time for the ថ្លៃទឹកដោះ? unless you cant read that says - Thlai Tuk Doah?
do you understand what that phrase means?
surely from all your experience from paying many girls for marriage but not actually marrying them you would know?
i do find it quite comical you trying to educate me on khmer culture, you obviously dont know me very well, but carry on

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Thu May 04, 2017 1:20 pmmate you are clueless, you think you know everything in your own little bubble, but you are in your own little world

And how much money have you made by being so clueful yourself? On how much cash are you sitting right now? Put your money where your mouth is. Prove that you have much more money than me!

One person talking about having money and another person talking about having brains. Who's going to win ?